Hi, I'm Brett McKay. I'm a writer and podcaster based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. For nearly two decades I've been thinking and publishing articles and podcasts to help men become better men.
My work shows up mostly in three places: The Art of Manliness, which I founded and edit; Dying Breed, my Substack of long-form essays; and The Strenuous Life, a membership program I've run for a number of years.
Take a look around, and don't forget to sign my guestbook on your way out!
A weekly podcast and online magazine — founded 2008
A site for men interested in living a flourishing life, covering history, philosophy, fitness, fatherhood, social skills, and personal finance. We're past 1,100 podcast episodes in the archive, with new material posted every week.
A Substack of long-form essays
A slower, quieter venue for working through longer ideas about virtue, character, and the practical wisdom (phronesis) of building a worthwhile life. Includes the Ex Libris series on books that shaped me, Sunday Firesides from my wife Kate McKay, and the Dying Breed Dialogues — edited interviews in the magazine tradition.
A membership program inspired by TR's 1899 address
A platform built around real-world challenges, badges earned through effort, and the fellowship of guys trying to live deliberately. Over 11,000 members!
| Profession | Writer, podcaster, publisher |
| Founded | The Art of Manliness — 2008 Built a leading men's lifestyle website and podcast from scratch; authored several books; conducted over 1,100 long-form podcast interviews. |
| Dying Breed — 2025 A Substack of long-form essays on virtue, character, and classical thought. | |
| The Strenuous Life — 2017 Designed and operated a multi-year membership program. | |
| Education | Juris Doctor — University of Tulsa College of Law, 2009 |
| Bachelor of Arts, Letters — University of Oklahoma, 2005 | |
| Interests | Books, Barbells, Burgers, Breakfast Burritos, Backpacking |
You can reach me through any of the following:
| By Mail |
Brett McKay PO Box 978 Jenks, OK 74037 |
| Location | Tulsa, Oklahoma |
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